We often miss the most delightful things in life, simply because we wait too long. The intention of this post is to make the any of you who read this happier in life. We all have plans for the future that we’ve been postponing for forever. Whether it’s to sport more often, to drop some pounds, to tell your crush about your feelings, to be honest with your best friend or maybe to start your own blog. It doesn’t matter what it’s about, but I want you to start doing it right now. I can honestly tell that I am an expert in things like these, because I’m most probably the person with the most regrets in life so far. I’m not even referring to regrets about things I’ve done, because I wouldn’t be the person I am now, if I hadn’t done it the way I did. I’m actually talking about regrets of things I didn’t do in the past. For example, talking to unknown people. If you’re following my blog or recently read some of my posts, you’ve probably noticed that I’ve mentioned quite often how happy it has made me to step outside of my comfortzone and to start talking to people I didn’t know before. Last year at the Dutch Junior Open, I didn’t talk to any of the players, except for 2 that stayed at our house, because I was too frightened that they would judge me on my speaking level in English. However, when I was having little chats with random people this year, it turned out to be anything but scary.
This post is also for those who want to stop a bad habbit. I’m talking about people who, for example, smoke a lot, drink too often, spend too much money or maybe even self-harm. I know that these subjects are quite personal and sensitive to talk about, but I’m doing it anyways. Because if nobody will tell them to stop, then they might end up with some big troubles.
Besides to people who postpone a lot, this message is also dedicated to those who’ve got some troubles when it comes to emotions. If you’re one of those people then I want to let you know by writing this, that there’s someone out there who likes and loves the way you are. I know it sounds super cliché, but it’s the actual truth, whether you believe it or not.
Anyways, hopefully I’ve achieved something with this post. It doesn’t matter whether it’s something small or big. Just go for it if you want it badly and if there’s any way for me to help you, then I’d love to try my best. Just message me, email me, tweet me or whatever. Don’t be scared (: Oh and also leave a comment below if this post has effected you. I’d love to hear your stories!
Quote of the day: Life begins at the end of your comfort zone